How To Be Spoiled By Life (Luxury Self-Care & Affirmations)

Selina
May 5
3 min read

Updated: May 24

(Affirmations + That Girl Energy To Live Your Dream Life)

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Okay so, listen:

You weren’t born to just work, scroll, and collapse into bed. You were born to be spoiled — by life, by love, by yourself.

It’s time you stepped into your spoiled, magnetic, untouchable era ✨ where you stop apologizing for wanting more and start making your world feel luxe, abundant, and soft.

Here’s your guide — complete with affirmations + non-basic upgrades — to help you romanticize your life, glow up from the inside out, and live like you’re already the main character.

🤍 1. “I DESERVE LUXURY IN MY EVERYDAY LIFE.”

A cozy bed with pink and white silk pillows, a Chanel fine jewelry book, and a serene atmosphere, suggesting elegance and relaxation. — image via pinterest

True luxury isn’t about saving everything special for “one day” — it’s about treating your now as worthy of beauty. It’s waking up and drinking coffee from a mug that makes you smile, wrapping yourself in soft sheets at night, and surrounding yourself with textures that feel like a hug.

You get to have beauty in your daily life — not just on birthdays or vacations.

🤍 Glow-ups:

→ Eucalyptus sheet set (sleep in buttery-soft eucalyptus sheets, not scratchy polyester.)

→ Ceramic mugs (coffee/tea as a ritual, not just caffeine)

→ Silk pillowcases (for skin + hair luxury)

💗 2. “MY ENERGY IS SACRED. I PROTECT IT.”

Woman sleeping, wearing an eye mask on pink silk pillow. Wallpaper with tree design, cozy setting with white comforter. Peaceful mood. — image via pinterest

You are not available for anything that drains you — period. Protecting your energy isn’t cold or selfish; it’s self-respect. It’s creating peace in your space, unplugging when you need to recharge, and filtering what (and who) gets your attention.

Imagine sleeping like royalty, in silence, with clean air and zero interruptions. That’s the vibe.

🤍 Glow-ups:

→ Mulberry silk eye mask (The silk helps improve the look of hair and skin during sleep.)

→ Dyson air purifier (pure clean air, pure luxury)

🌸 3. “I TURN EVERY ROUTINE INTO A RITUAL.”

Person in gray pajamas reads Vogue on a sofa, wearing a glowing facial mask. Bright room with white shutters and elegant decor. — image via pinterest

The secret to feeling spoiled? Stop rushing. Slow down. Make even the smallest moments feel intentional.

Instead of chugging coffee, savor it. Instead of speed-washing your face, turn skincare into a 5-minute facial. Elevate your rituals so they become tiny love letters to yourself.

🤍 Glow-ups:

→ LED face mask (that hot girl-level glow)

→ Automatic soap dispenser (hands-free luxury)

→ Japanese exfoliating towels (next-level shower experience)

✨ 4. “MY SPACE REFLECTS MY WORTH.”

Beauty products and jewelry on a marble tray. Includes skincare items, a pink hair clip, perfumes, gold necklaces, and heart earrings. — image via pinterest

Your home should mirror the version of you that’s thriving. You deserve a space that calms your nervous system and feels like an extension of your glow-up.

Declutter. Add beauty. Make your space a sanctuary you crave coming home to.

🤍 Glow-ups:

→ Marble catchall tray (for perfumes + jewelry)

→ Crystal bedside carafe (no plastic water bottles in sight)

☁️ 5. “I INVEST IN EXPERIENCES THAT ELEVATE ME.”

A woman in white athletic wear stretches on a Pilates reformer in a serene room with pink accents and a large window. — image via pinterest

It’s not always about having more stuff — it’s about creating a life full of moments you’ll never forget. Prioritize what expands you: the solo trip, the new hobby, the spontaneous adventure.

Start saying yes to experiences that push you closer to the girl you’re becoming.

🤍 Glow-ups:

→ Waterproof Kindle (read anywhere, even in the bath)

→ AeroPilates reformer (reformer Pilates at home = hot girl wellness flex)

🌸 6. “I AM COMMITTED TO MY WELLNESS.”

Woman in white outfit lounges on sofa in bright room with city view. Glass table holds pink roses, books, and decor, including text "BAGUETTE". — image via pinterest

You can’t glow on the outside if you’re running on empty inside. Wellness is your foundation — your skin, your mood, your mindset all thrive when you prioritize rest, nourishment, and joy.

Think beyond kale and cardio. Go for rituals that feel indulgent and healing.

🤍 Glow-ups:

→ Lifepro infrared sauna blanket (detox, glow, repeat)

→ Smart water bottle (that tracks hydration)

→ Clevr Blends adaptogen lattes (infused with superfood powder, adaptogens, probiotics..)

💎 Final Affirmation:**

“I am magnetic. I am worthy. I am living in overflow.” **

Being spoiled is a mindset. It’s walking through life with the knowing that you are worthy of beauty, pleasure, rest, and abundance — right here, right now.

So light the candle. Make the fancy latte. Book the solo date. The more you live like you’re already the prize, the more life will rise up to meet you.

Thanks for reading :)

Love, Selina

@Cutethingsxo